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How To Behave In Church

Read I Timothy 3

“I am writing you these instructions so that…you will know how
people ought to conduct themselves in God’s household,
which is the church of the living God.”
(I Timothy 3:14-15)

Thoughts… One of the big differences I have noticed between my parents (they are now in their 70’s) and me (I am not in my 70’s) and the different generations we represent is our attitude toward authority. People of my parents generation seemed to quietly, willingly and obediently accept authority while people of my age and younger seem to automatically question authority. The rebelliousness of the 60’s marked that sea change from the respectfulness of the 50’s. Nothing captures this change better than the philosophy popularized by whacky 60’s psychologist Timothy Leary, who preached, “Think for yourself and question authority.”

Though sounding good on its face, in reality it has been taken to an extreme to where authority isn’t just questioned now, it is resented, and in many cases, rejected out of hand. For the most part, this attitude toward authority has had a deleterious effect in our society in general, and specifically it has had a corrosive effect in our homes, in our schools, and even in our churches.

We need to be very careful in our response toward all authority in our lives. I am certainly not promoting blind submission to anyone who is in charge. God has given you a brain, and you need to use it to “think for yourself.” Likewise, you have every right, and a God-given responsibility, to question the validity of anything that seems contrary to the values of the kingdom. Yet at the same time, you must recognize the divinely ordained role of the leaders whom God has placed in your life.

I would suggest to you that one of the best and first places to begin evaluating your attitude and response to leadership is in the church. Now since I am a pastor, this may sound somewhat self-serving, but the reality is, God is very concerned with peace, love and harmony in his family, the church. That is why letters like I and II Timothy were written. That is why God gave very clear instructions for church leadership roles, such as pastors, elders and deacons.

The church is a family, and like any family, there needs to be loving, wise, and honorable parents in order for the family to be healthy and happy. Likewise, there needs to be honor and respect from the children toward the authority of the parents. So it is in the household of God. Paul was very concerned that people understood God’s “code of conduct” for life in the family, and the role of the leaders was to ensure good and honorable behavior in the church.

I say all this to challenge you to review your attitude toward the leaders who serve you, especially in the church, the most important arena in which you live. I hope that you will look at your spiritual leaders in a different light from here on out. I hope that you will have a whole new appreciation for them. I hope that you will encourage them more often than you do now. I hope that you will pray more diligently for them, since they have a very difficult task on their plate. I hope that you will respond to their authority more respectfully and trustingly the next time there is a leadership initiative. And if you sense they are leading in a way that is incongruent with kingdom values, think it through, question them about it, but do it with honor and love.

Ask yourself this question: Am I a delight for my spiritual leaders to lead?

“Obey your leaders and submit to their authority. They keep
watch over you as men who must give an account. Obey
them so that their work will be a joy, not a burden,
for that would be of no advantage to you.”
(Hebrews 13:17)

Prayer… Dear Father, make me a delight for my spiritual leaders to lead. Make me an instrument of love, peace and harmony in my spiritual family. May I also conduct myself in your household in a way that respects my leaders and honors you.

One More Thing… “The authority by which the Christian leader leads is not power but love, not force but example, not coercion but reasoned persuasion. Leaders have power, but power is safe only in the hands of those who humble themselves to serve.” — John Stott

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You Mean I’ve Got To Pray For Politicians?

Read I Timothy 2

“I urge, then, first of all, that requests, prayers, intercession
and thanksgiving be made for everyone—for kings and all
those in authority, that we may live peaceful and
quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This
is good, and pleases God our Savior.”
(I Timothy 2:1-3)

Thoughts… In this year’s presidential campaign, it was purported that one of the candidate’s own mothers said that you might have to hold your nose and vote for her son. With a mom like that, who needs an opposition party!

If the Apostle Paul were writing today to twenty-first century American believers, he’d probably say, “Not only do I want you to vote, I want you to make sure you pray for the candidates. And while you are at it, I want you to also pray for the president and congress—Republican and Democrat, conservatives and liberals alike. It’s in your best interest to lift them daily before the Father’s throne. Besides, it pleases God when you do!”

That is a hard pill to swallow these days with the rapscallion Republicans and disingenuous Democrats who are ruling our land. If you are like me, you find their hypocritical lifestyles, their pandering politics, their out-of-control spending, and the blatant disregard for God in their politics odious. Frankly, it’s hard for me to pray for them. Perhaps Paul just didn’t foresee the kinds of political leaders we would have to put up with in our time, much less pray for.

Wait just a minute! Did you ever consider who the emperor was when Paul wrote these words, and what conditions were like during the first century? The emperor was none other than Nero—one of the worst of the worst of all the Roman emperors. Without going into all the horrific details, Nero was responsible for some of the worst persecution against Christians at any time in history.

Yet Paul says to the believers of his day, “Pray for him. Intercede on his behalf…even thanking God for his leadership.” Huh? That’s right! Paul wanted the church to pray for this horrible man so that God would use his leadership as a launching pad for the propagation of the Gospel.

Wow! If the believers of Paul’s day could pray for a leader like Nero—a man who was bent on torturing and killing them, then there is no legitimate reason I can come up with to resist genuinely praying for the men, and perhaps women, who are or will be my president.

I am obligated to pray, intercede, and be grateful to God on their behalf. When I do, I demonstrate that I am a believer not just with a political view, but a citizen with a kingdom view. And better still, I invite Divine pleasure into my life by taking such a godly posture.

I don’t know about you, but I think I will pray for my leaders today!

Prayer… Dear Father, I lift the political candidates of both parties, as well as the President and the leaders of Congress before your throne. I pray for their wellbeing and wisdom. Give them courage and resolve to do the right thing. I ask that you use them as your instruments to create the kinds of conditions in which the Gospel will best grow. Thank you for them. Bless them. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.

One More Thing… “The government of the United States is acknowledged by the wise and good of other nations, to be the most free, impartial, and righteous government of the world; but all agree, that for such a government to be sustained many years, the principles of truth and righteousness, taught in the Holy Scriptures, must be practiced.” —Emma Willard, 1843

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Even Dirty Rotten Sinners

Read I Timothy

“Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners”—and I am the
worst of them all. But God had mercy on me so that Christ
Jesus could use me as a prime example of his great
patience with even the worst sinners. Then others
will realize that they, too, can believe in
him and receive eternal life.
(I Timothy 1:15-16)

Thoughts… If God could save Paul, God can save anyone. He was a super-pious religious zealot who thought he was doing God a favor each time he imprisoned, persecuted, or killed a Christian. He was intolerant, close-minded, bigoted, and arrogant—on a good day.

And yet God reached him. Actually God slapped him up side the head on the Damascus Road one day. You can read that dramatic story in Acts 9. Paul was radically and completely transformed by his encounter with the risen Savior. He had met Jesus, and in that meeting, he didn’t stand a chance. He became a trophy of God’s grace.

Now the truth is, you weren’t any better off that the pre-converted Paul before God found you. Neither was I. We were dirty rotten sinners, too, but now we are trophies of God’s grace. We were messed up, sin prone, hell bound sinners who deserved nothing but eternal punishment. But we were just the kind of people that Jesus came into this world to redeem. And for that, you and I will give thanks before the throne of God for all eternity.

So here’s the deal: If God could save dirty, rotten sinners like Paul, you and me, he can save that resistant sinner that lives in the same house as you, or who lives next door, or who goes to your school, or works in the office next to you. You have been praying for them, but there seems to be no response, no interest, not even the slightest crack in their spiritual armor.

Don’t give up! They may be just a prayer or a kind act or a verbal witness away from getting totally messed up through a radically transforming encounter with Jesus. That’s why he came: To save sinners just like them. He saved Paul, didn’t he? He saved you, didn’t he?

Maybe that dirty rotten sinner you’re praying for is next!

Prayer… Dear Father, thank you for your redeeming grace in my life. I will never get over that. Throughout eternity I will fall before your throne in humble gratitude for saving me, the worst of sinners. Now Lord, release your saving grace to those dear people in my life who do not know you. Confront them with your love—today. Make them the newest trophies of your grace.

One More Thing… “Either sin is with you, lying on your shoulders, or it is lying on Christ, the Lamb of God. Now if it is lying on your back, you are lost; but if it is resting on Christ, you are free, and you will be saved. Now choose what you want.” —Martin Luther

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Epitaphs

 

Read II Timothy 4:1-22

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept
the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness,
which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on
that day—and not only to me, but also to all
who have longed for his appearing.”
(II Timothy 2:3)

Thoughts… This is the self-summation of Paul’s life—carved in perpetuity by God’s hand in the granite of His eternal Word as a living witness to the faithful life Paul lived. This is his epitaph, if you will.

And one day you, too, will have an epitaph chiseled on a headstone. If you doubt that, take a stroll through a cemetery and you’ll see that everyone gets one. In fact, I’d highly recommend that stroll, because what you read on the final markers tells a lot about the lives of those buried beneath them…and so it shall be for you!

Paul got an epitaph…I will get one…you will get one, too. The only question is, what will yours say?

Here are a few of the more humorous epitaphs from history:

One from England reads,

Anna Wallace
The children of Israel wanted bread
And the Lord sent them manna
Old clerk Wallace wanted a wife
And the Devil sent him Anna

One that a lot of people might relate to states,

Owen Moore has passed away
Owin’ More than he could pay

Another one from the Old West reads,

Here lies Lester Moore
Four slugs from a forty-four
No Les
No More

One found in Silver City, Nevada says,

Here lies a man named Zeke
Second fastest draw in Cripple Creek

One of my favorites was found in Texas. It simply says,

I Told You I Was Sick

But here’s one that will not only make you laugh, it will cause you to think:

This is what I expected
But not so soon

Epitaphs like that confront you with the unavoidable reality that one day you, too, will have your entire life summed up and chiseled onto a stone for others to read.

A New England headstone captured that sobering truth well:

As you pass by and cast an eye
As you are now so once was I

You’ll have an epitaph some day, and whatever you hope it will say means that you’ve got to live your life that way between now and then. I hope mine will be like Paul’s:

“I have fought the good fight
I have finished the race
I have kept the faith

Prayer… Dear Father, teach me to number my days aright, that I may gain a heart of wisdom. My I live each and every day so as to hear you say on that final day, “well done, good and faithful servant.”

One More Thing… “No man ever repented of being a Christian on his death bed.” —Hannah More

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The B-I-B-L-E

Read II Timothy 2:1-22-3:17

“All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is
true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects
us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right.
God uses it to prepare and equip his people to
do every good work.” (II Timothy 2:3)

Thoughts… If you are a born-again, evangelical, church-going Christian—which I hope you are, or will be soon—then you know that our first and most foundational statement of faith is in the inspiration and authority of the Bible. Here how we say it,

We believe the Bible to be the inspired, the only
infallible, authoritative Word of God.

The Bible is God’s perfect guidebook for living. It is the sole basis of our belief. It is uniquely God-inspired, without error, and the final authority on all matters on which it bears. From the Bible flow all of the other cardinal doctrines upon which we base our faith—the one true God, eternally existent as Father, Son and Holy Spirit, the deity of the Lord Jesus Christ, the universal sinfulness of man, the plan of salvation, the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, the return of Jesus Christ, the final judgment.

An unknown writer said,

“This Book is the mind of God, the state of man, the way of salvation, the doom of sinners, and the happiness of believers. Its doctrines are holy, its precepts are binding; its histories are true, and its decisions are immutable.

Read it to be wise, believe it to be safe, practice it to be holy. It contains light to direct you, food to support you, and comfort to cheer you. It is the traveler’s map, the pilgrim’s staff, the pilot’s compass, the soldier’s sword, and the Christian’s character.

Here paradise is restored, heaven opened, and the gates of hell disclosed. Christ is its grand subject, our good its design, and the glory of God its end. It should fill the memory, rule the heart, and guide the feet.

Read it slowly, frequently, prayerfully. It is a mine of wealth, a paradise of glory, and a river of pleasure. Follow its precepts and it will lead you to Calvary, to the empty tomb, to a resurrected life in Christ; yes, to glory itself, for eternity.”

If the Bible is that important—and I believe it is—then it is certainly appropriate for me to challenge you to read it every day. Don’t miss a day—it is your spiritual manna. Meditate on it! Memorize it! Master it! Minister it by living what it tells you to do, how it tells you to live, and who it calls you to be!

The 19th century theologian Henry Ward Beecher said, “The Bible is God’s chart for you to steer by, to keep you from the bottom of the sea, and to show you where the harbour is, and how to reach it without running on rocks and bars.”

As a little kid, I was taught that important theology of the Bible this way:

The B-I-B-L-E, yes that’s the book for me
I stand upon the Word of God
The B-I-B-L-E

Pretty good theology. It works for adults, too!

Prayer… O God, your Word is eternal. It is perfect. It is true. I embrace it as my guidebook for life, and my roadmap to eternal life. I will love it, read it, and live it. I will teach it and do my best to inspire others to love it and live it as well. Thank you for your written Word—along with salvation, the greatest gift you have given the world.

One More Thing… “The devil is not afraid of the Bible that has dust on it.”

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Buck Up, Soldier!

Read II Timothy 2:1-21

“Endure hardship with us like a good soldier of Christ Jesus.”
(II Timothy 2:3)

Thoughts… You’ve got to admire Paul’s attitude toward discomfort. Whether he was being thrown in prison, beaten with rods, drifting at sea on a plank from the ship that had just wrecked, being kicked out of the city for preaching the Gospel, abandoned by his so-called friends, told he was crazy by government officials, or many of the other various things he had suffered, he simply treated them as just being part of the job. Suffering was all in a days work for Paul.

Maybe those city officials were right—Paul was a little crazy. Who in their right mind has such a lackadaisical attitude about hardship? The answer: One who sees their role in life as a soldier for Jesus Christ.

Soldiers are tough. They endure suffering. They undergo discipline to make them stronger, more battle-ready. They serve at the pleasure of their commander and fight for king and country. And those of us who are citizens of that country are glad for that.

Paul says that we, too, are soldiers. And what is true of a real soldier ought to be true of spiritual soldiers as well. We should expect discomfort—it toughens us. We should leverage hardship to make us battle-ready—since we do have this little matter called spiritual warfare to contend with. We ought to embrace suffering when it comes as simply a part of what serving at the pleasure of the Commander means. We need to reframe our thinking so as to see all of life—including persecution, rejection, and any sort of pain, along with all the wonderful benefits and blessings that outweigh them all—as the privilege of soldiers fighting for another Kingdom.

And there’s one more thing Paul understood about suffering that made it endurable: The reward at the end of the battle. He knew that not only he, but anyone who suffered as a Christian, would also reign with Christ.

It takes a long view of life to see it that way, but what a great motivation we have. If we suffer with Christ, and if endure for Christ, and if we persevere and overcome as soldiers for Christ, we will live with him forever and reign in his eternal kingdom.

Reframe your thinking—your suffering now will pay off later in ways that I cannot even begin to describe. It will be worth it all.

So buck up, soldier!

Carry on.

Prayer… Dear Lord, you suffered so much for me, and for that I am eternally grateful. Now Lord, strengthen me to suffer redemptively—without so much as a complaint. What a privilege to be in discomfort for your sake. It is such a small price to pay to be a good soldier for you. If I am called to suffer I will fix my eyes on you, Lord Jesus, “the author and perfecter of my faith, who for the joy set before you endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

One More Thing… “When a man has quietly made up his mind that there is nothing he cannot endure, his fears leave him.” —Grove Patterson

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Puttin’ The Devil Out Of Business

Read II Timothy 1:1-18

“Never be ashamed to tell others about our Lord.”
(II Timothy 1:8)

Thoughts… Why on earth would we ever be ashamed to share the Good News of Jesus Christ with others? Yet the sad fact is, we sometimes are. We are afraid people will reject us. We worry that our “one way to God” message will cause us to come off as narrow and intolerant. We stress over not being able to adequately articulate the plan of salvation. We assume there will be objections that we are ill-prepared to handle.

There are a hundred reasons why we shrink back from sharing our faith, but I believe that underneath them all is the fact that the Enemy hates the truth we bear. So he works overtime to keep us from declaring it—inclusive of the reasons I’ve already mentioned. The fact that even the very thought of witnessing brings shame, fear, nervousness and reluctance is proof in itself that the our Gospel message really is the Good News of salvation by grace through faith in Jesus Christ.

Think about it: Are you ever reluctant to tell your neighbors about a fine dining experience you’ve recently enjoyed? Are you ever timid about boasting of your favorite football team? Do you every worry about not having the right words to describe a can’t-miss movie? Of course not!

So why the shame-fear-timidity over sharing about Jesus? Your Enemy doesn’t want you to since it puts him out of business!

Puttin’ the devil out of business! Now that in itself makes me want to seize the very next witnessing moment and lead someone out of the Enemy’s clutches.

But while anger at the Enemy may be a motive, there’s an even better one for sharing our faith. In the previous verse, II Timothy 1:7, Paul gives Timothy the antidote for this reluctance to share Christ,

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity,
but of power, love and self-discipline.”

That’s God’s promise to you, too. So the next time you are afraid and timid in a witnessing opportunity, reject it. Remember, your self-discipline will enable you to brush aside the Enemy’s manipulation while tapping into God’s power and love to share the greatest news to ever hit this planet.

If God gives you the opportunity today, go ahead, share your faith and help put the devil out of business.

Prayer… Lord, today, give me an opportunity to give someone the Good News. By faith, I receive an infusion of your power and love. Let them overflow from my life and touch someone with the wonderful story of your saving grace.

One More Thing… “Let me not be a mile-post on a single road, but make me a fork that men must turn one way or another in facing Christ in me.” — Jim Elliott