Voyeuristic Worship

Reject Performance Based Worship and Just Sing to the Audience of One

Don’t be a voyeuristic worshiper. Next time you’re in a church service, forget the music style, the song choice, the smoke and mirrors, and the talent on the stage leading the singing. Shut all that out and give your heart in praise to the Audience of One.

Read: Psalm 145 // Focus: Psalm 145:21

“My mouth will speak in praise of the LORD. Let every creature praise his holy name for ever and ever.”

I had occasion to be in another city some time ago where I attended a worship service. From all outward appearances, the church seemed to be thriving. The building was attractive and innovative, the guest services were effective, the publications were outstanding, outreach opportunities were plenty, the mission of the church was cleverly stated, the people were great looking, the worship band was hip, the songs were the latest—the “cool factor” of this church was extremely high. Oh, I almost forgot, they were even observing the 11th Commandment: Thou shalt have a cool café that serves Starbucks coffee and blueberry scones!

But I was bugged. As I looked around, I noticed that people were not engaged in the worship. They were watching, enjoying, applauding after each song that was performed perfectly by the band. And that, I think, was what bugged me: It was a performance—or it appeared that way to me. The congregation was really a “concert crowd” and they were watching and enjoying “worship” as it was performed onstage by their band of spiritual “rock stars”. Worship was happening voyeuristically.

Then it hit me! As I was looking around at everybody else and judging the authenticity of their worship, I suddenly realized that anybody else in that crowd could have looked at me “rubbernecking” and made the very same assessment: Voyeuristic worship. I wasn’t worshipping, I was watching.

It was in that moment that the Holy Spirit reached down and dislocated my heart—ouch! So I decided to worship. I literally whispered this prayer, “God, you deserve worship, and if I am the only person in this place that will do it, I will worship you with all of my heart. You’re going to get worshipped today, and I am going to be the one to do it!” And to the best of my ability, I did.

Now I’ve got to tell you, once I made that choice, and even though I didn’t particularly like the style of music or the song choices, I ended up having one of the greatest experiences of worship I’ve ever had. I came into God’s presence and experienced the joy of giving my love to him, basking in his goodness, and experiencing his presence. And guess, what? When I opened my eyes, I saw a different church—there were lots of worshipers.

What changed? Not the church so much; it was me that had changed. My perspective was different. My heart was softer. And my experience of worship came close to what I think God wants it to be for me whenever and wherever I gather with his people to praise him: Worship from the heart of the worshipper. I made the choice to worship—style of music notwithstanding—and I experienced God!

That’s what David is doing here in this psalm—finding reason to give God the worship he deserves. That’s what this psalm is calling for from you and me. So the next time you have occasion, join David—and me—by making that choice to worship the God who deserves our very best worship. There are plenty of reasons, you know!

And if you are the only one willing to do it—which you are probably not—make sure that God gets worshipped!

Making Life Work: The next time you are in a worship experience, close your eyes, forget about everybody else, forget about the style of the music, forget about you, and just sing a love song to the Audience of One.

Living Under the Influence—Of You!

Before You Know It, They Will Be Eulogizing You

Time flies, and one day before you know it, you will be approaching the finish line of your life.  And when that day comes, what will those who have been under the influence of you have to say about your life? What will they say about the thumbprint you have left on them? Sobering, isn’t it! Time flies—which means you ought to live now in the way you want to be remembered then.

Read: Psalm 144 // Focus: Psalm 144:4

“Man is like a breath; his days are like a fleeting shadow.”

David’s words are so true—and sobering, aren’t they. Time flies, life is fleeting, and before you know it, those who were once so alive and vibrant are now ambling toward the twilight of their lives. And on occasion, the saying, “here today, gone tomorrow” forcefully intrudes into your world with an unmistakable wakeup call that this is not only true of the people you know and love, it is true of you as well.

I had the privilege of spending a great deal of time under two men who were my spiritual mentors—Dr. Murray McLees and Dr, Charles Blair. They were both great leaders in their day, and their influence in my life has been nothing less than defining. In their prime, they were unequaled in visionary, courageous, innovative and skillful leadership. They were statesmen in their ministries. They did for the Kingdom of God what not many others have done. These men were spiritual giants—God’s generals—but when I served with them, they were approaching the finish line.

Watching them in their bell lap was a bittersweet experience for me: I was saddened by the reality that they were not what they once were, but was gladdened by the reward that certainly awaited them for running strong and finishing well the race that God had set before them. Looking back on the ups and downs, the victories and the defeats, the sorrows and joys of their long and illustrious careers, King David’s words at the end this psalm (Psalm 144L15) aptly sums up their lives:

Blessed are the people of whom this is true;
blessed are the people whose God is the LORD.

These were men of God, and they were blessed. And I am blessed to have their thumbprints all over my life.

But time flies, and one day before I know it, I will be where they were. And when that day comes, what will those who have been under my influence say about me? And what about you? What will they say about the thumbprint you have left on their lives? Sobering, isn’t it!

O Lord, teach us to number our days aright so that we might live them wisely! (Psalm 90:12)

Making Life Work: What do you want people to say of you after you are gone? It would be a worthy assignment to write out your eulogy—the word spoken about you at your memorial service. But here’s the thing: you’ve got to live that way between now and then!

A Little Help Here!

God Help! At The Start, At The Finish And All The Way In Between

Walking a godly path is not the easiest road to travel. In fact, Jesus called it “the narrow road that only few ever find.” That’s why we need to pray, early and often, “A little help here!” Yes, the god-pleasing life can be achieved, but it will take daily dependence on God—a moment-by-moment, coming to him and getting a little help from above—which he will gladly give!

Read: Psalm 143 // Focus: Psalm 143:10

“Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground.”

David was well aware of his own inability to live a righteous life before God. That’s not to say he didn’t try, or that he simply dismissed his failures with an, “Oh well, it’s just the way I am; I just can’t help myself.”

David knew the problem was much deeper than that—and much more troubling. And it wasn’t his problem alone. He knew that mankind was fundamentally flawed because of a sinful nature (“Do not bring your servant into judgment, for no one living is righteous before you,” Psalm 143:2), and that no matter how much we try, we will ultimately steer right off the cliff into personal sin. And from David’s personal experience, he knew that would probably happen early and often.

So the sweet singer of Israel makes his plea for help from above. If sin were to be overcome, it would take a little help from God. Actually, a lot of help! It would require God’s active mercy (Psalm 143:1), the daily renewal of his loving guidance (Psalm 143:8), and his shepherding care to keep David walking in his will and on the straight and narrow path (Psalm 143:10, cf. Psalm 23: 1-4).

Living the godly life is not the easiest road to travel. In fact, Jesus said it this way: “Heaven can be entered only through the narrow gate! The highway to hell is broad, and its gate is wide enough for all the multitudes who choose its easy way. But the Gateway to Life is small, and the road is narrow, and only a few ever find it.” (Matthew 7:14, TLB) Or as the Message translates it,

Don’t look for shortcuts to God. The market is flooded with surefire, easygoing formulas for a successful life that can be practiced in your spare time. Don’t fall for that stuff, even though crowds of people do. The way to life — to God! — is vigorous and requires total attention.

Since our lives are out of fundamental alignment by virtue of the sinful nature that got passed down to us from Adam, by nature, we will continually drift toward the devil’s ditch. That will require a constant effort on our part to overcorrect just to keep on that “narrow way” about which Jesus spoke. Most of all, it will take daily dependence on God—day-by-day, perhaps moment-by-moment, coming to him and getting a little help from above.

To live the kind of life God has called us to live, we will need to exercise the same kind of temerity as the kid who wrote this prayer to God: “Jesus, I feel very near to you. I feel like you are beside me all the time. Please be with me this Thursday. I am running in a three-mile race then and I will need all the speed in the world then. If you’re re not busy, could you be with me at the starting line, the finish line, and everywhere in between?”

Yeah, that’s what we need: a little help at the start, the finish, and all the way in between!

Making Life Work: The world’s most powerful prayer is also the shortest and simplest: Help! Perhaps you should pray that right now!

Cavetime

Where God Sends Believers To Boot Camp

We prefer to live out in the sunshine of God’s grace, but sometimes we get the “cave” instead. Cave time is core curriculum in the school of spirituality maturity. Call it whatever you want: the pit, the prison, the desert, the wilderness—the cave is basic training for believers. It’s where God breaks you down in order to build you up. By the way, God does some of his best work in caves.

Read: Psalm 142 // Focus: Psalm 142:1

A Maskil of David. When He Was in the Cave. A Prayer
“I cry aloud to the LORD; I lift up my voice to the LORD for mercy. I pour out my complaint before him; before him I tell my trouble.”

We all prefer to live out in the sunshine of God’s grace, but from time to time we get the “cave” instead. “Cave time” is just core curriculum in the school of spirituality maturity. Call it whatever you want: the pit, the prison, the desert, the wilderness—the cave is basic training for believers.

Joseph had a prison; Moses had the desert; Jeremiah had a pit, Daniel had a den, Paul was in and out of jail so many times, like Motel Six, they “kept the light on for him.” Even Jesus had a wilderness. Oh, he got a cave, too—he spent three days in one. If Jesus had “cave-time,” the cave won’t be optional for you. Every believer gets “the cave.”

What is the cave? The cave is a place of death; it’s where you die to self. The cave is the place of testing; it’s the blast furnace for moral fiber. The cave is where your mettle gets tested, your maturity gets revealed and your heart gets exposed! Put a person in the cave of distress, discouragement or doubt, and true character will show up. And if your brave enough to open up to the truth about you, the cave will reveal just how much work God still has to do to get you ready for great things. (Deuteronomy 8:2)

Likewise, the cave is the place of separation. Not only does God reveal the true you in the cave, he also strips you of every misplaced dependency. (Deuteronomy 8:3) In the cave, God separated David from everything he had once depended on, and all that was left for David was God himself.

The cave was perhaps the most frustrating period in David’s life—but in hindsight, it turned out to be the most fruitful. That’s because the cave is also the place of forging. (Deuteronomy 8:4-5) The cave is where God breaks you down in order to build you up.

That’s what God does in the cave. And by the way, God does some of his best work in caves. It was there in the cave of Adullam that David wrote three of his most moving psalms—Psalms 34, 57 & 142, including our key verse: “I cry aloud to the Lord…I pour out my complaint before him; before him I tell my trouble.”

If you’re in a cave and you’re complaining to everyone else but God, you’re missing a great opportunity to pour out your heart to the only one who can do something about it. Good things always happen when you get honest with God. So try talking to him—and be patient, God does great work in caves.

If you doubt that, just remember that empty cave on the outskirts of Jerusalem. For three days, it held a crucified body. But God does great work in caves—best of which is resurrection. Perhaps that will change your mind about caves.

Making Life Work: If you’re in a cave and you’re complaining to everyone else but God, remember, he is the only one who is there with you. Besides, you’re missing a great opportunity to pour out your heart to the only one who can do something about it. Good things always happen when you get honest with God. So try talking to him—and be patient, God does great work in caves.

Zip It

We’ll need supernatural help if we’re going to get our mouth in the right place with God. That’s why we need to pray for Divine help—every day: “God, help me to zip my lips!” We can’t do it alone. But God will help us if we sincerely ask him. He never encourages us to do something that he is not willing to help with. And if we get God’s help, there isn’t anything we can’t do…even zipping our lips!

Read: Psalm 141 // Focus: Psalm 141:3

“Set a guard over my mouth, O LORD; keep watch over the door of my lips.”

If you are an average American, researchers have found that you will engage in 30 conversations a day and will spend one-fifth of your life talking. In one year’s time, your conversations could fill sixty-six books at 800 pages each.

How come then, with so much practice speaking, few of us have ever gained complete or even consistent mastery of the content of our communication?

Think about it: Just a few inflammatory words set off a chain of events that look like World War III in your life. You come home from work tired and cranky, and yell at your wife…she yells at the oldest kid…he yells at little sister…she goes out and kicks the dog…the dog bites the cat…the cat comes in and scratches the baby…the baby rips the head off the Barbie doll.

Wouldn’t it be a whole lot simpler if the husband had just ripped off the Barbie’s head himself?

Your words matter! Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that our words can either kill or they can give life: “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” That’s how powerful they are. And more importantly, our words reveal what is going on within us. Matthew 12:34 says that our words only reveal what is already inside our heart: “how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.” That is why control our mouth must begin with reforming our heart.

So what does your mouth reveal about your heart? If we were to play back a tape recording of every conversation you’ve had this week, what would we learn about you? That you have a bitter, angry, hurtful, doubtful heart, or that your heart is faithful, hopeful and loving?

David knew he would need supernatural help if he were going to get both heart and mouth in the right place with God. That’s why he prayed for Divine help. You and I need to pray that too, every day! We can’t do it alone. I know I can’t—I’m living proof of that. But I think God will help us if we sincerely ask him. He never encourages us to do something that he is not willing to help with.

And if we get God’s help, there isn’t anything we can’t do…even zipping our lips!

Making Life Work: Pray David’s prayer every day this week—several times a day if you need to: “Lord, set a guard over my mouth!”

The Chief Justice of the Supreme Court of the Universe

There Comes a Time When You Need to Approach The Bench

We need to do what we can to uphold justice in our world, but there comes a time, for sanity’s sake, that we must turn all the evil and injustice to the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court of the Universe. One day, maybe sooner, perhaps later, he will hold court, and then every evil intent and wicked act will be brought to light, judged, and the sentence will be pronounced.

Read: Psalm 140 // Focus: Psalm 140:12

“I know that the LORD secures justice for the poor and upholds the cause of the needy.”

King David was one of the most amazing leaders in human history. Flawed, certainly, but skilled, talented, brilliant, creative, courageous, inspiring, visionary and successful like few other leaders of men. Even still, David had his detractors. They were there from the beginning to the end and at each step in between nipping early and often at David’s credibility and authority to lead.

Even at the zenith of his reign in what has been called the Golden Age of Israel—when everybody should have been on board with David’s program, there were evildoers woven into the fabric of Israel poticallly, militarily, culturally and spiritually who promoted wickedness and perpetuated injustice. But David knew that ultimately God was the Great Discerner of human motives and would reveal the wicked intent of their heart sooner or later. Though it may not have seemed like it at the moment, he was confident that God would come to the rescue of the poor and innocent, and would bring about Divine justice to all who were oppressed.

King David did what he could as the king to promote justice, but even he had his limits. And when David reached those limits, he would make his appeal to the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court of the Universe, God himself. That was the only way David could maintain his sanity as a leader in a sea of evildoers and injustice.

That is a good idea for you and me as well. We need to do what we can to uphold justice in our world, but there comes a time for sanity’s sake that we must turn all the evil and injustice to the Chief Justice. One day, maybe sooner, perhaps later, he will hold court, and then every evil intent and wicked act will be brought to light, judged, and the sentence will be pronounced. But this calls for great perseverance and patience on our part. James talks about this in his New Testament epistle,

“Be patient, then, brothers, until the Lord’s coming. See how the farmer waits for the land to yield its valuable crop and how patient he is for the autumn and spring rains. You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s coming is near. Don’t grumble against each other, brothers, or you will be judged. The Judge is standing at the door! (James 5:7-9)

When circumstances are uncontrollable, when people are unchangeable and when problems are unexplainable, James says, “practice patience!” Why? Because God is in control! James says, “Be patient…stand firm…don’t com-plain, because the Lord’s coming is near.” Furthermore, practice patience because God rewards it. In James 5:11, he says, “As you know, we consider blessed those who’ve persevered.” And finally, practice patience because God is at work. James goes on to say in verse 11 says, “You’ve heard of Job’s perseverance, and you’ve seen what God finally brought about. He’s full of compassion and mercy.” Job couldn’t see it, but God was working. And while you might not see how God is working, he is. Clouds may block your view of the sun, but the sun still shines behind the clouds, so God is at work even when you don’t see it.

So the next time you’re tempted to get discouraged about all the injustice that is beyond your scope of authority, either in the world at large or in your personal world, don’t grumble about it. Take it to the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court of the Universe.

Making Life Work: Who or what is trying your patience at the moment? Turn it or them over to the Chief Justice of the Supreme Court of the Universe. How? Sit still: “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him to act.” (Psalm 37:7) Reject anxiety: “Don’t be anxious about anything…” (Philippians 4:6) Meditate on truth: “Think about what’s trustworthy and true.” (Philippians 4:8) And practice casting: “Cast all your cares on him.” (1 Peter 5:7)

No Stopping The Unstoppable God

He Will Perfect That Which Concerns Me

Read: Psalm 138 // Focus: Psalm 138:8

“The LORD will fulfill his purpose for me; your love, O LORD, endures forever—do not abandon the works of your hands.”

“God will perfect everything that concerns you.” (Psalm 138:8, NKJV) I have heard my wife use King David’s phrase many times in her public prayers. I like that thought, don’t you? Nothing will stop God from fulfilling his purpose for my life—nothing!

That was the essence of David’s thinking in this psalm. Nothing could get in the way of what God had in mind, that is, God’s perfect will for David’s life—not even his own fleshly desires. That’s the caveat to this truth: the perfecting is of that which is according to God’s will, which of course, is what ought to concern us more than anything else in this life.

The New Testament writer Jude capture the essence of this truth in his benedictory prayer when he wrote, “To him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you before his glorious presence without fault and with great joy—to the only God our Savior be glory, majesty, power and authority, through Jesus Christ our Lord, before all ages, now and forevermore! Amen.” (Jude 1:24-25) Likewise, the Apostle Paul wrote similar words in Philippians 1:6, “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

How comforting and empowering to know that if we are passionately pursuing God’s purposes, God has passionately committed himself to fulfilling his purposes in us. No matter what things may look like—horrible circumstances and hateful people notwithstanding (Psalm 138:7)—God will never abandon the work that he has lovingly and painstakingly invested in us, and he will ultimately bring that work to perfect completion.

What David had discovered was that when we are for God, and when God is for us, we cannot lose! 2 Chronicles 16:9 reminds us this profound truth,

For the eyes of the LORD range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him.

Wow! God so desires to fulfill his purposes in this world that he is actually scouring the earth looking for fully devoted people in order to release his enabling power in their lives. Is your heart fully committed to him? If it is, then God will find you, and sooner or later you will come into the greatest joy that anyone can ever experience in this life: God fulfilling his purposes for you and through you.

Yes, God will perfect that which concerns you!

Making Life Work:What are the obstacles standing in your path to pursing God? According to Psalm 138:8, God will repurpose those stumbling blocks into building blocks. Try praying a thanksgiving prayer for everything that seems to impeding your progress. Then ask God to empower you to work with him to use those very things to perfect you. Pray this risky prayer: “God use this to shape me.”