UNSHAKEABLE: If we choose to pass judgments about other believers based only on our opinions and preferences (“disputable matters” Rom 14:1), we will very likely cause the subject of our judgments and the onlookers to our judgmental expressions to fall into sin. Even though our opinions and preferences in and of themselves may not be sin, when they are offered in such a way to block another believer’s growth and sap their spiritual vitality, we become a stumbling block, and in so doing, commit one of the worst sins possible: causing someone else to falter.
Unshakeable Living // Romans 14:13
Therefore let us stop passing judgment on one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in your brother’s way.
There is an intentional and intriguing choice of Greek words here in Romans 14:13. It is the word, krino, which means “to judge.” The Apostle Paul used it twice: the first time is as a negative, “stop passing judgment” and the second time is as a positive, “make up your mind.”
What Paul has done in this chapter is to bring each of us to one of the most critical decisions we will ever make as Christ-followers: To either use our lives as a stumbling block or as a building block in the body of Christ. That outcome is determined by the mindset we choose.
If we choose to pass judgments about other believers based only on our opinions and preferences (“disputable matters” Rom 14:1), we will very likely cause the subject of our judgments and the onlookers to our judgmental expressions to fall into sin. Even though our opinions and preferences in and of themselves may not be sin, when they are offered in such a way to block another believer’s growth and sap their spiritual vitality, we become a stumbling block, and in so doing, commit one of the worst sins possible: causing someone else to falter.
That is why, at all times, our best judgment must be deliberately employed to choose and use the kinds of words, attitudes, and actions that build others up in their faith. When we do, we become that which is highly prized by heaven: a building block in the body of Christ. Paul says, “Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification.” (Rom 14:19) “Edification” comes from the Greek word, oikodomay, which literally refers to the thing that is built, and metaphorically to the act of one who promotes another believer’s growth in wisdom, joy, piety, and purity.
What, then, are you to do with your opinions and preferences — the things you feel strongly about? It’s simple: for the most part, keep them to yourself. Think I’m being too hard? Think again: “So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God.”(Rom 14:22) And if you do feel the need to offer them, which you have every right to do, express them respectfully and carefully. As Paul says, “Do not destroy the work of God for the sake of” what you prefer. (Rom 14:20)
Simply remember this critical piece of theology and you will always be a building block, not a stumbling block: “The kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking [your opinions and preferences], but of righteousness, peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.” (Rom 14:17)
Righteousness, peace, and joy! When you value and promote those three kingdom jewels at all times, you will have figured out the best and highest use of your life. And best of all, your life will be forever prized by heaven!
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